Monday 28 July 2008

Day 21 - Keychain

Hey guys, Sunday saw a day of theory...early into London for Soul's direct game talk. He compressed his entire programme into two hours, trying to nail as many key points as possible. Such a great lecture!

I took loads of notes, highlights included some really great stuff on sexuality and romance. The idea is that an attractive man hits a number of attractions switches, rather than just hammering one. So just being funny or sexual (or whatever) is good, but it's better to being attractive on a number of different fronts.

Soul taught us about having those romantic qualities that women find so attractive, how to be sexual and convey sexuality. Too little, and you're just a friend, too much, and you're sleazy...there's a balance and that's what we discussed specific techniques in this area (proximity, flicker-look, voice tone). So much good stuff.

We talked about the role of social calibration in direct game, and how to moderate and adjust your approach based on the circumstances. You can successfully approach a girl in almost every circumstance...but if you tailor your approach to fit those circumstances, your success rate will go up.

I strongly recommend hitting up a lecture or one-on-one with this guy. He's an excellent and BALANCED direct game instructor (specialising in daygame) and thoroughly worth meeting and learning from.

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We went on to have part 3 of Mr.M's Social Circle Mastery theory sessions...all about meeting value connectors and . I don't even want to summarise this stuff too much, it's so deep I'd be doing it a disservice.

Then MrM got down and practical with each Rockstar - giving us individual critiques on our first impressions and general social skills. He didn't focus on our in-set activities, but rather spoke to our relationship skills. Great stuff.

After that, I went back to the station (number closed a cute Japanese girl on the way). Was going to go to a concert but decided to go home instead...got on my train and one minute before it was due to leave, Blackswan texted me to invite me out in Leicester Square with him and Vercetti...

I had moments to decided...catch my train and get an early night or go out AGAIN...pfft, no competition! I GIJoe-rolled out of the train and headed down to sarge-central.

Muchos chatting and fun times, bumped into Mystel and some of his friends...all good times. I was pretty exhausted and feeling like a a zombie but all the interactions soon got me going again. We did a bunch of sets, I winged Mystel a little (fun!) and Blackswan a lot (always fun!). We had good fun just practicing and meeting people.

Got home at about two am...hit the sack, ahhh sleeeeep...

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